Friday, January 11, 2013

The 5 Truths About Oral Sex That Every Man Should Know

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 If you are able to give your girl oral sex properly, there are higher chances she will be able to orgasm easily. The main reason is a lot of girls out there love oral sex. It is often the only way for some women to orgasm even before actual sex. It therefore helps your sex life a lot if you can get the facts correct about cunnilingus.
(1) Can women reach orgasm when giving her oral stimulation?
For many women, cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the female genitals) is the fastest route to orgasm. Most women can climax when they are being licked compared to penetration. This is as a result of stimulating the clitoris as well as the surrounding area. The clitoris is equally as sensitive as the tip of the male sexual organ. Its sole function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure.
(2) Does giving her oral sex mean just using your mouth or tongue?
Just because it is called oral sex does not mean only using your lip and tongue to arouse her. There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented and creative man. While you are French kissing her clitoris, you can use finger to rub gently on it at the same time. You can use other parts of your body on her genitals as well. Your can use your nose, cheeks, chin and even the tip of your "little brother" to rub against the clitoris and the surrounding region. Each of these can definitely create different kinds of sensations and pressures or pleasures on her.
At times, your mouth or tongue gets tired; you can replace the stroking with a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo that you can use inside her. To give her additional sensation, you can have an ice-cube in your mouth and alternating between having it touches her while you are using your mouth and then hiding it in your cheek. So, you can see here that your "working tools" are not just limited to mouth and tongue.
(3) Is it enough just to focus on the clitoris and the surrounding area?
One most important thing to remember is you should not go immediately for her clitoris. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she does not like is an over-achiever who heads right to her clitoris with an overly aggressive tongue. In order to prepare a woman to take in some of your oral loving, there should preferably be a lot of foreplay involved. You begin by gently nibbling her ear lobes and doing a lot of kissing on her face and neck.
You should pay particular attention to her breasts and nipples in order to prepare her for the main event down under. The super sensitive nerves in her nipples are linked to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris, so just by gently pinching or nibbling her nipples will drive her absolutely wild. To tease her, you can begin by stimulating her nipples with your mouth and stimulating her clitoris with your fingers. After she becomes immensely aroused, switch to stimulating her nipples with your hands and using your mouth where your hands used to be. She will certainly love the varieties of sensations on each of her body parts. If you can keep your balance, you can finger G-spot as you lick her clitoris and pinch her nipples. These multiple sensations will give her an unforgettable orgasmic experience.
Other areas that can enrich her sensual sensations are the perineum and anus. These two areas are very sensitive to tongue licking for both sexes especially so for the tongue penetration of the anus.
(4) Do all women smell down there and how to cope if she smells?
Some women do smell down there and this may not be due to her low hygiene standards. Her diet and a lot of other factors affecting her chemical make-up are probably the main factors. However, most women do have a more pleasant smell down there especially if they have washed well before jumping into bed with you. But there is still certain odor that no soap or fragrance can masked. This is because most of the smell comes from the love juice that she releases as she gets progressively aroused. The best solution to cope with her smell is to take a shower with her.
(5) Will you get HIV or Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) through oral sex?
There is a risk of STDs, including genital herpes and warts contracted through oral sex. During menstruation, there is an increased risk of transmitting HIV if the woman is HIV positive. If you do not know her well, you should protect yourself using a dental dam or square piece of latex when you perform oral sex on her.
There you have it - the 5 basic facts about giving her oral sex. This is not a definitive oral sex guide, but it is a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques you can try to please her sexually and you can find out more by clicking on Hot Sex Tips and Naughty Sex Ideas.
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